A Practical Guide to Enjoying the Holidays Without Going Broke

By Tokiso TKay Nthebe

Season’s greetings, fellow trailblazers!

What a year it’s been — unpredictable, challenging, and eye-opening. From rising food prices and changing interest rates to the ever-present cost-of-living squeeze, this year has tested us financially and emotionally. Many professionals, freelancers, and entrepreneurs have had to tighten their budgets, redefine priorities, and rethink spending habits just to stay afloat.

Yet here you are — you’ve made it to the end of the year. That in itself deserves celebration. The festive season is a time to rest, reflect, and enjoy the rewards of your hard work. But before you dive into the celebrations, here’s an important question:

How do you enjoy the holidays without derailing your financial goals?

Here are five smart and practical ways to stay financially savvy this festive season — so you can relax, recharge, and start the new year strong.

1. Practice Financial Discipline

Good money management starts with discipline — and discipline starts with a plan.

Before the festive rush, take a moment to review your financial goals and remind yourself what you’re working toward. Whether it’s debt freedom, building your emergency fund, or investing for retirement, your goals deserve consistency.

Remember: the holidays are temporary — your financial health is long-term.

Create a spending plan, set clear limits, and commit to sticking to them. Avoid the temptation to “reward yourself” excessively — future you will thank you.

2. Plan Ahead and Budget for January

Budgeting isn’t just about tracking your December expenses — it’s about preparing for January too.

The new year often brings unavoidable costs: school fees, rent, transport, debit orders, and subscriptions. To prevent “Janu-worry,” allocate funds for these commitments now.

If you’re prone to overspending, consider paying essential expenses upfront. This ensures peace of mind and helps you start the year with confidence — not credit card debt.

Pro Tip: Use a budgeting app or financial planner to stay on top of your festive spending and cash flow.

3. Top Up Your Emergency Fund

If you’re receiving a bonus, 13th cheque, or payout from a savings group (stokvel) — resist the urge to splurge it all. Instead, channel a portion toward your emergency savings.

Life is unpredictable — cars break down, contracts delay, clients pay late — and having an emergency fund keeps you financially secure and stress-free when things don’t go as planned.

Ideally, aim to save at least three to six months’ worth of expenses.

4. Set Financial Boundaries to Protect Your Peace

Money and mental health are deeply connected. The festive season often comes with social pressure to spend, from family expectations to peer comparisons.

Give yourself permission to say “no” without guilt. Setting financial boundaries isn’t selfish — it’s self-care.

If you can’t afford that extra gift exchange or family contribution, communicate honestly and respectfully. Protecting your financial wellness also helps protect your emotional and mental well-being.

5. Celebrate Your Wins — Big or Small

As ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs, we often rush from one goal to the next without pausing to appreciate how far we’ve come.

Before you wrap up the year, take a moment to reflect:
✔️ Did you open a savings or investment account?

✔️ Start budgeting consistently?

✔️ Pay off debt or boost your income streams?

✔️ Prioritise your mental health or set healthier money boundaries?

Whatever progress you’ve made — celebrate it!

Treat yourself mindfully — whether it’s a book, a new outfit, or an investment top-up. Celebrate progress, not perfection, and enter the new year with gratitude and intention.

Conclusion

Financial wellness is about balance — enjoying today without compromising tomorrow. The festive season is a beautiful opportunity to rest, reconnect, and reset your money mindset.

So, as you enjoy the holidays, remember: spend intentionally, give meaningfully, and save wisely.

Your financial journey doesn’t pause for the holidays — it evolves with every smart decision you make.

About the Author
Tokiso “TKay” Nthebe is an author, podcast host, and financial coach. As Lead Advisor at TKO Financial Wellness & Advisory, she helps working professionals, freelancers and business owners across Africa (and beyond) build financial confidence, design wealth-building strategies, and create legacies of economic freedom.

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